Despite everything that has been going on, I have been able to get some dancing in, and the activity actually helps some with the symptoms.
I haven’t gotten in as much dancing as I would have liked, but something is always better than nothing.
I did have a rounds practice on Sunday, which was fairly interesting considering I was having intermittent moments of dizzyness and light-headedness and had to stop more than I would have liked.
Aside from that though, there were moments when things seemed to be finally coming together. After the first round in standard, Boss told me to focus on keeping my core connected with him and that made for some interesting 2nd and 3rd round dancing. The result was that I was more aware of when my left side opened up away from him so I felt like I was spending every dance fighting with myself to keep my core where it needed to be. Boss told me yesterday he thought that was great because I kept noticing and correcting when I opened up. Ah, the differing perspectives.
Boss and I had a brief discussion yesterday about the practice on Sunday and there were two things of note that came out of that. The first was that Boss told me most of my standard routines are pretty disastrous because my footwork sucks. But then he told me it was ok since I just seemed incapable of rolling through my foot properly.
*sigh*. There is nothing I hate more than being told I am incapable of doing something which I have neither been told I need to work on nor given direction on where in my routines I should be focusing on it. How can I be capable of something I am not really aware of having to do? I am not even sure what specifically he is talking about when he says ‘footwork’ and ‘rolling’.
The other discussion was a bit more interesting. Boss expressed frustration that I seem to have developed a habit of going really big on some steps and then tightening up small on others. It’s like I let the gas out then apply the hand break while still revved up every now and then. He found it fairly strange that I seemed to just stop traveling at certain points in routines, but then start moving again at others.
This makes perfect sense to me. Besides the fact that I haven’t really been encouraged to travel during my routines in quite some time (and honestly have forgotten a bit how to do it), when I come to a step that I am not quite sure of, or I don’t trust myself to be able to control the momentum, I immediately start to ‘err’ on the side of caution because I don’t want to screw up and hurt myself or Boss. So those steps get small. Then when I reach a step I am more confident in, I go back to putting everything I have into doing it.
I wasn’t fully consciously aware that I was doing that, but I wasn’t surprised when he mentioned it. We did a section from our Waltz that the steps needed to be clarified on and it ended with a Wing to a Fallaway. I am never sure how much I can step during the Wing (and apparently I move far enough), but Boss made a point of showing where I can take the opportunity to move more once we get into the fallaway.
It’s enough to give me something to think about and put into my own practice until the next time we do rounds (which could be in 2, 3, or 4 weeks–I haven’t been told yet). Together with the focus on the connection and keeping my left side turned in, that gives me two very solid things to focus on during those practices, now that I am much more grounded in the choreography.
The other thing I heard yesterday that I don’t think I ever thought I heard was that I was doing CBMP when I wasn’t supposed to and that was complicating some of my quickstep steps. Go figure–I have spend months trying to make sure I am using CBMP when I need to that I have apparently overdone it.
I have an extra lesson this week to make up for the one I missed last week, and I suspect my lessons will focus on the smooth routines for the next little while. The tango and foxtrot are coming together a little bit (tango more than foxtrot), and I think there is an intent to pull the waltz together too. Boss mentioned an idea of doing a rounds practice with just smooth in a few weeks, so we will see what happens with that.
The other thing of dancing note that happened recently was a bit of a strange conversation with one of the amateur couples. They recently started coming more and more to the studio for their own practice and last Friday they were there not only for my lesson, but also had to share space with me while I did a practice after. Their initial comment was ‘Wow! You work just as hard as Boss does’ (which was a little bit insulting considering the level of their surprise at that), but then on Sunday they clarified that they had no idea that I worked so much and so hard on my dancing. They have been dancing in the community for quite some time, but their experience seeing me work has been only since I was sick, not before (as I practiced in a different hall). It was an interesting conversation which ended with them expressing some genuine respect that I work 100% all the time–even on my own. Perhaps it’s a mini pro/am victory of sort for the community. (The community where I live has a general lack of understanding and respect for pro/am dancers and we are seen as being ‘carried’ by our pros and ‘not real dancers’–I have been told that by amateur dancers).
I continue to be frustrated about my health but it does seem to finally be settling down (fingers crossed). The one thing I am finding most difficult is that my mind is fuzzy and foggy all the time and I can’t seem to remember simple things. It means a lot of repetition and makes me worried about the idea that I am supposed to perform one of the smooth routines (dance still to be confirmed) in less than 2 weeks. Normally, that wouldn’t be a big deal, but since I can’t seem to retain much these days….OY.
But tomorrow is a new day, and hopefully a stronger, more clear-headed one.